Awareness
It is interesting that in the walk of life we seem to think we need to push things to make it better. We push our spouse to be the perfect companion and to achieve his highest good. We push our children it seems from a very early age to be all they can be just keep on pushing up the ladder of education, next success, then who knows what. We get on the Freeway and push the person in front of us to gain a second and we are being pushed at the same time. Usually there is nowhere to go and if your patient you will see all of them down the road at the accident caused by a pusher, who forgot to push the brakes.
From my stand point, if you are pushing for anything, you are never going to learn to FOLLOW!
Spiritualhypster 